There are so many different types of therapy, it can be overwhelming when you’re starting out. While there are definitely things to consider when choosing a therapist, identifying when a method of therapy isn’t working is a powerful way to make progress on your mental health journey.

What does it look like when therapy isn’t working for you? It is important to remember that your ‘aim’ in therapy can be a moving goal post. For example, you might start therapy to manage your depression but after dealing with the immediate symptoms you and your therapist might begin focusing on your childhood experiences that are informing your current behaviour. This is normal!

But you shouldn’t be leaving your sessions feeling frustrated. While a therapy ‘hangover’ is expected, you should feel at least slight relief at being heard and supported through a session. It can be helpful to journal or just jot down how you feel after a session to keep track of...

Spending 50, or more, minutes opening up to a therapist can feel intense! It is understandable that you’d want to feel comfortable when talking about your emotions and trauma. Here are 4 things to consider when you’re searching for a mental health professional to work with:

Identify your needs

It can get confusing fast when looking at types of therapy, what heck is Conative-behavioural Theory or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing? There is no need to deep dive into research about types of therapy (unless you want to!), but consider reading websites and blurbs about therapists to narrow down the support you’re looking for. For example, if you suffer from anxiety, then make sure it’s mentioned as an area of expertise in their bio. If you’re in Canada, try Psychology Today to search for a therapist or the American Psychology Association if you’re in the US.

Consider your needs

Do you feel shy about opening up or maybe you prefer hearing...